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Tuesday, October 4, 2011

5 MEANINGFUL QUESTIONS TO CHANGE FOR BETTER

With as much honesty and openness as you can muster, answer the following questions...

1. Do you absolutely love what you do for a living?
2. Are you in excellent shape both inside and out?
3. Do you have as much money as you need and want?
4. Are your relationships with friends and family meaningful and rewarding?
5. Are you living each day as the person you'd always hoped you'd become?

My wish is that you were able to answer yes to each question, but it is not always easy to make these things happen, is it? You work hard every day and have the best of intentions, but still you struggle to create the life you really want to live.

Perhaps you can even relate to several of the common problems described below:

1. Heading off to an unchallenging, unfulfilling, and low-paying job without any prospects of a bright and satisfying career in the future.
2. Spending forty hours every week working for someone you don't admire or respect.
3. Feeling unhappy and guilty about the way you look and afraid of the health risks that come with being out of shape.
4. Running out of energy and feeling exhausted even before the day has run out.
5. Wanting to change and live a healthier lifestyle but struggling to make it happen.
6. Living paycheck to paycheck without being able to put money aside for savings, investments, or retirement.
7. Feeling guilty about not being able to provide the nicer things in life for your family, and terrified at the thought of growing old without enough money to get by.
8. Feeling alone and disconnected from others - even in a long-term relationships.
9. Wanting to make new friends and enjoy fulfilling relationships with family and friends but unable to make it happen.
10. Living by routine without any joy or excitement, unable to change negative habits or patterns.
11. Doing the same things day after day and never feeling truly happy or fulfilled.
12. Having to deal with constant worry, stress, and feelings of hopelessness.

While not every scenario hit home, I am sure you have dealt with at least a handful of these feelings in your life. And belive me, you are not alone. Literally millions of people just like you are hoping to live a happier, more successful life, but the sad reality is that most will never find what they are looking for.They will live their entire lives without ever experiencing a rich, lively, exciting, and immensely rewarding life, and it is not through a lack of desire or effort.

If you have not created the life you have always wanted to experience, it is not because you do not work hard or do not deserve it. And it is definitely not because you are simply a bad person.No.

The actual reason you are not getting everything you want in life is because you are missing a single critical skill. Only you know the reason and you can get it by a critical thinking. Think it throughly and you will find the asnwer. You know the best what is best for you. It is vital to think and have a vow to resolve it to enjoy your short life.

Thursday, April 7, 2011

Creating Your Belief System

Overview You have heard that old saying "If you put your mind to something, you can achieve it". But the question is how to really put your mind to something so that you do achieve it. Yes, you can achieve anything if you instruct your mind and sub conscious mind properly. But, unfortunately, most of the people just do not know how to instruct their mind and subconscious mind to achieve what they really want. End up, they give up - if they do not have inner strength. Instead, they end up getting their mind and subconscious mind create things they really do not want. If you do not direct your mind and subconscious mind to focus on what you want, you will likely end up getting what you do not want. It is really that simple. For example, you want to be a manager at your organization, but you never act or focus on how to be it. Then it end up with you are still you, at your not-manager position. How can you stop creating what you do not want and get your mind and subconscious mind to actually work for you? Control Your Mind Most people do not control their mind. They do not instruct their subconscious mind because they do not control their thoughts. Most people are not even aware of the thoughts they have everday. And they do not choose their belief. When you do not choose your belief - that something you have to, your thoughts become autopilot. The journey to no-where destination. Instead, your mind constantly sending wrong messages or wrong instructions to your subconscious mind. That is how you end up creating the life you actually do not want. If you want to be successful and happy, do you have thoughts and beliefs that reflect success and happiness? You must actively choose your thoughts. You decide it. You choose it. You make it happen. You control it. You instruct it. You cannot leave your mind on autopilot, accepting whatever thoughts it conjures up and then you begin to believe these thoughts. If you do not choose your beliefs, means you merely accept what your mind and other people tell you. This is not supposed to be. You may want to be successful and happy. You may do everything you can to be successful and happy. But if you not enjoying the success and happiness you want, then take a moment to analyze your thoughts and beliefs. You will find that what you think is the exact opposite of what you want to achieve. Sure you want to be successful but you really do not have any thoughts or beliefs that suggest you can be successful. Whatever you want to achieve you can if you have a belief system that allows you to succeed. If you want to make more money, you must have a belief system that says you believe you can make more money. If you want to meet the right person, you have to believe that you can meet the right person. If you want to succeed at something, you must believe that you can succeed at it. Only you can say this because it is your success. Nobody cares if you do not succeed, but you care. Your Belief System So how do you create beliefs that correspond with what you want to accomplish? First - think about what you want to achieve. Then ask yourself do you really want to achieve it. Do you really want to accomplish your goal? If you do not believe you can achieve your goal, then there is a work to do and you are going to have to change your belief system so that it allows you to succeed. The best is you include in the reason of why you want to achieve that goal, that you yourown set it. In order to change your belief system, you must analyze your thoughts. Then change it quickly. Do this at a constant manner. Set it at weekly basis or even daily basis. You will be crazy if you do this every hour. Second - list all your thoughts and beliefs that you have about achieveing that goal. For example, if you want to make more money, but you are not making the kind of money you want, then list why you do not think you can make more money. Now change those thoughts to correspind with what you want. These are your new thoughts. These are your new statements. These are your new affirmations. These are what you should think and recite through out the day. Everyday. Third - replace your thoughts. Make a very sure you change your thoughts as discussed above. Replace those lomiting thouhgts with those new thoughts. If you want to achieve success and happiness, then you have to create thoughts and beliefs that allow you those goals. Begin changing your thoughts. Begin changing your beliefs. Your thoughts and beliefs will work for you. Eliminate the negative thoughts forever and ever for better life. Start creating the life you want today. -Managing Director- Mosha Management. Creative.Different.Trusted.